Undeath Is Tight

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
xenomorphique

I’ve been meaning to talk about this in full, but anxious

fuck-ler

Tumblr user sobercommunist, strangely popular among some “leftists”, has sent me detailed anonymous messages about me raping my abuser and rape in general, then telling me he’ll stop if I don’t talk about him. He claims that I called him a rapist (which I never did), and that because of this I’m deserving of his stalking and harassment. Once I blocked him, he started viewing my blog offline. Once I made that impossible, he began logging into seperate accounts to find it. One of these accounts is @cm-delenda-est, where he has replied to someone else.

I added statcounter to my blog because of this and was able to identify him. He has viewed my blog far more than any of my followers.

Here are some of the anons I got, which he threatened to send more of if I talked about him:

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The others I’ve deleted because I don’t want my followers to keep seeing this drama.

He has spent 16 hours on my blog since I last logged into statcounter:

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As you can imagine, this goes on longer. He normally looks at the anons he sends me and notes to see who else he can harass (now one of my mutuals).

So yeah, spread the word, and I don’t care if I get more rape anons, I’ll turn my askbox off.

Proof from his own blog:

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deathsstrckes

sobercommunist is a piece of shit that hates trans people, lesbians, is fucking racist as shit and historically sent similar messages to a lesbian of color, and then hides behind his shitty behavior by saying calling him out is “serophobic” or homophobic or whatever other label he can hide behind 

idk how much popularity he still has at this point, and im sorry he’s decided you’re his new target OP, but i am glad to see other people calling him out on his shit because he’s an absolutely vile piece of human trash 

baptismae

I’m the lesbian of color and he messaged me as recently as a couple of hours ago, he hasn’t stopped since 2016.

deathsstrckes

JESUS CHRIST he’s STILL going after you oh my fucking G O D does he have nothing better to do 

baptismae

Yeah lol corrective rape threats and all.

solacekames

I’m a woman of color and I’ve had sobercommunist blocked ever since he threw a weird sexualized insult at me last year. I got off easy, obviously. He’s abusive, predatory, cowardly, pathetic scum. I would suggest preemptively blocking him and please remember if you receive abusive messages on anon, you can block the anon and it will block everything coming from that particular address. Please add to this post if you know of any sock puppet blogs and IP addresses he’s using.

lafemmemacabre

New url is @/archaeocommunologist! Preemptively block.

finnglas

Reblog if you have used dude as a non gender specific term.

disparition

where I grew up in California not only is “dude” generally non-gender-specific, half of the time it doesn’t even refer to a person at all.

annlarimer

I said it to a faucet today. 

simplyfx

A customer once came to me to order a sandwich and said “I want this dude”

noble-moon

Dude is more than a word, it’s an emotion. 

nobody-told-the-horse

dude is a way of life

thats-what-sidhe-said

“Dude” is frequently non-gendered, for sure, but like, sometimes it is gendered, otherwise the phrase “Dudes and Dudettes” wouldn’t exist. To be truly worthy of wielding the Dude, it’s important to respect the gender of all dudes, dudettes, duderines and dude-nots. If you feel anyone might feel excluded by “Dude”, or asks that you not refer to them that way, it’s simple enough to respect that.

mckitterick
crypticauthour

Even Weird Al has had that™ experience with Tony Hawk

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roguetelemetry

Tony Hawk IS Forrest Gump

foone

So I looked up why and how this happened, and it turns out Weird Al hired a company called Birdhouse Skateboards to provide some “skate/punk” extras for the video. Birdhouse Skateboards is a company started by Tony Hawk, so not only did Weird Al end up putting Tony Hawk in his video without realizing it, he actually hired Tony Hawk’s company without realizing it! And then Tony Hawk just decided to go along as one of the extras himself.

BTW, he’d already won like 40 contests already, some of them international skateboarding contests. So it’s not like Weird Al cast some unknown skateboarder who ended up becoming World Famous Skateboarder, he was already well known and was running his own Skateboarding company.

cookingwithroxy

Think of it this way. This wasn’t ‘Weird Al got Tony Hawk to be in his video’, this was ‘Tony Hawk found a way to be in a Weird Al Video.’

cryoverkiltmilk

The chance that Tony Hawk has infiltrated your location or piece of media is low

BUT NEVER ZERO.

hater-of-terfs
loverbear-butch

just saw a post where someone put “detrans dni” and like… hey we should be supporting detransitioned people bc if we don’t terfs will

loverbear-butch

sometimes you’re wrong about your identity and that’s ok like i used to think i was bi but it turns out i was wrong and i know ppl who thought they were trans but it turns out they were wrong and it should be ok and accepted that sometimes people don’t get it right on the first try

loverbear-butch

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@shadowknight1224 this is an excellent way of putting it thank you

becausegoodheroesdeservekidneys

This touches on something I have felt for a long time, which is that one of the reasons rigid queer labels and gatekeeping is so dangerous is because if you want to encourage people to explore their gender/sexuality, there has to be a safe "Actually I was wrong" option.

I went through so very much anxiety coming out, and when I really think about it it was squarely from the fear of being wrong about it all. That I was, at heart, a cishet woman, and therefore I was appropriating a label that didn't 'belong' to me, and I would (somehow) be harming other people by doing so. There's so much more unnecessary pressure if the sword hanging over your head is "But you do have to be right about this, you can't back out once you've even asked the question."

I think that is Bad. I think it makes fewer people ask the question. I think that includes those who need to ask, and would be much happier for it.

damnfool-of-a-took

to summarize: one of the things the Q stands for is QUESTIONING

and that is as it should be

tikkunolamorgtfo

I’d like to also submit the possibility that some people may be more prone to shifts in their gender identity than others, and that it’s not necessarily even a case of being “wrong,” so much as it’s a case of just changing over time. I know the predominant narrative we see in discourse is that a person who transitions was never their agab—and I’m sure that’s true for a lot of people! But… it’s not true everyone? I remember reading an interview with Danny Lavery after he came out, and he said something along the lines of “One day, I went to bed a woman and woke up not a woman anymore.” So if a person can change once, who’s to say that can’t change again? For example, I know Eddie Izzard (whose labels have shifted a lot over the decades, as terminology and options for gender identities identity have changed many times over since the 1980s) has said she goes through long block periods of being a particular gender, so right now she’s “based in girl mode,” (her words) but she’s previously had blocks of time being based in “boy mode,” too. So like, whose to say other people don’t have block periods like that? Maybe somebody really was non-binary for ten years and now they’re not anymore, y’know? Not feeling something about yourself forever doesn’t have to mean you were wrong the whole time. Of course, being wrong is okay too! But I’d make room for both.

indieninja92

i LOVE this addition, especially because it helps us move away from the "ive always known" narrative that dominates so much trans space. sometimes your gender literally changes, and it's not helpful or healthy of us to act like that means everything that came before was false or mistaken.

close2home

Gender Fluid Vibes… Nice!